"I’m Not Photogenic": Why You’re More Ready Than You Think for a Boudoir Session
Image by Elle Photography, Denver Boudoir Photographer
Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, I’m just not photogenic? If so, you’re not alone. It’s one of the most common things I hear from clients when they first reach out to me.
The idea of standing in front of a camera can feel vulnerable, and those lingering doubts about how you’ll look can stop you from even considering a session. I get it.
The thought of being photographed when you don’t feel like you’re naturally photogenic can feel daunting. But here’s the thing: being photogenic isn’t about luck or genetics. It’s about being guided by someone who knows how to bring out the best in you.
The Myth of "Photogenic"
Let’s talk about the word photogenic. Somewhere along the way, we’ve come to believe that some people are just born to look good in photos while the rest of us are stuck with awkward angles and forced smiles.
But the truth? The magic of a great photograph isn’t in some mysterious gene; it’s in the connection between you and your photographer, the lighting, the posing, and the confidence that comes when you feel truly seen.
As someone who has worked with women of all shapes, sizes, and ages, I’ve seen time and time again how transformative the right environment and guidance can be. When you’re in a space where you feel safe, supported, and celebrated, your natural beauty shines through. And it’s my job to create that space for you.
Why It’s Normal to Feel This Way
I’ll tell you a little secret: almost everyone who steps into my studio starts with the same concern. They’ll tell me, I’m so awkward in photos or I’ve never liked how I look in pictures. But by the end of the session? Those same clients laugh, glow, and marvel at how beautiful and confident they look.
It’s completely normal to feel unsure, especially if you’ve never had a professional photography experience before. Life doesn’t always give us chances to feel glamorous or celebrated, and selfies don’t exactly capture the depth of who you are. That’s where I come in—to show you the version of yourself that you might not see every day but is absolutely there.
My Approach to Helping You Feel Confident
Here’s how I help ease those fears and turn “I’m not photogenic” into “Wow, is that really me?”:
Personalized Guidance: From the moment we start planning your session, I’ll guide you through everything. We’ll choose outfits that make you feel amazing, discuss hair and makeup styles, and plan poses that highlight your best features.
Creating Comfort: My studio is designed to make you feel at ease. Think cozy textures, flattering lighting, and a playlist that’s all about making you feel like your most confident self.
Expert Posing and Direction: You don’t need to know how to pose—that’s my job! I’ll show you exactly what to do, down to the smallest detail, to make sure you look natural and radiant in every shot.
A Judgment-Free Zone: This is a space where you can let go of expectations and simply be yourself. I’ll guide you every step of the way, and I’ll celebrate every moment of your courage to show up and be seen.
You Deserve to See Yourself in a New Light
The idea that you’re not photogenic often comes from self-doubt or comparing yourself to unrealistic standards. But you are so much more than those doubts. You have a story, a beauty, and a light that deserves to be celebrated. A boudoir session isn’t just about creating beautiful images; it’s about rediscovering yourself and seeing what everyone else sees in you.
So, if that little voice in your head is saying, I could never do this, I encourage you to ask yourself: What if I’m braver than I think? What if I deserve to feel beautiful?
Chances are, you’ll surprise yourself.
If you’re ready to take that first step, I’m here to help you every step of the way. Let’s create something amazing together.
